End of the Journey

As the trip is ended; there will be no additional posts to Traveling With Teen for the time being.


Wednesday, June 18, 2008

The end of the travels

Well, we are both back in Toronto now. Aaste still claims that, in general, she did not enjoy the 8 months that she was outside of Canada. Everyone tells me that one day she will thank me.... but I'm not sure that matters. What matters is that she saw a wide variety of ways that people live in the world. She observed and enjoyed or didn't enjoy (amoung other things):

  • Shipboard life onboard the Queen Mary 2.
  • The busy cosmopolitan existences of big city life in New York, London and Dublin.
  • The laid-back, non-commercial and cooperative lives of people on Sherkin Island.
  • The clean, organized, and socially respectful cultures of Scandinavia, remarking to me "You know what's different here from at home Mom? There are no homeless people here."
  • The poverty and struggles of people in Nicaragua.
  • The oddness of ex-pat culture in a tropical beach town.
  • A solid introduction to the Spanish language (which she DOES acknowledge pleasure about already)
I believe that for better or for worse, these observations and experiences will shape the person that she is... and personally I believe that it will give her a broader view of the world - which has to be a good thing.

We are still speaking! Although 14 year old girls and their mothers have unique relationship challenges, and we are not an exception.

For me, this journey has convinced me that I am not ready to return to life in Toronto and perhaps I never will be. I have decided to return to Nicaragua for at least 6 months. I have sold my house in Toronto and am scheduled to return to Nicaragua in August of 2008. The adventure continues.

3 days and 10 galleries


Mexico City Street Scene

I arrived in Mexico City in the early afternoon on Wed. I was scheduled to depart for Puerto Vallarta early evening on Friday. This left me 2.5 days of time to cram in as much of Mexico City as possible. I decided to focus on art and art galleries. I was not disappointed. Mexico City is a fascinating place and if it weren't for the bad air quality I could see myself spending more time there. I was impressed by two things: less poverty than I expected - it is an incredibly large city so it is quite possible to never actually bump in to the legendary shanty towns. Second - the sad lack of sidewalk cafes. For a city with a fantastic climate and a European history, Mexico City seems to lack a cafe culture and sidewalk cafes were few and far between.


A lovely street in a wealthy suburb.


The famous murals were as impressive as promised.


The garden of Frida Kahlo's house.

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Goodbye Nica (for now)


I will miss the sunsets!

I flew out of Managua on May 5 - destination Mexico City. I had booked in to a Couch Surfing network contact's apartment for two nights and was determined to see as much art as possible while I was in Mexico City. Thus, although it was a little sad to say goodbye to Nicaragua I was eagerly anticipating enjoying Mexico City for a couple of days.



A nighttime view of the town from our 'patio'.

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Art in the Park

San Juan had it's second annual 'Art in the Park' festival a couple of weeks ago. I volunteered to help out and was given the job of distributing 200 raffle tickets to kids between 5 and 12 years old. The ticket gave them a chance to win one of 24 bicycles that had been donated by local individuals and businesses.

In order to try and ensure that each child only received one raffle ticket, we marked their hands with a magic marker. Well, magic markers and sweat don't mix so well and the magic properties wear off, as do the marks! While some kids were seen busily trying to speed this process by rubbing frantically at the spot on the backs of their hands, other kids were returning to us quite concerned that their marks had worn off and asked for a new mark.



One of the more entertaining aspects of the day was watching the volunteers try to get the tents set up to shade us all from the beating sun. That is, it was entertaining until one of tents got caught by the wind and flipped 'ass over tea kettle' as they say... fortunately all the kids got out of the way of it, and although a few adults were struck, no one was seriously injured.



Thanks to my friend, Marie, who seeing me standing in the morning sun went and bought me a hat!



Mom's observations of Nicaragua

My mom visited us late last month, and upon her return home sent a short epistle to her friends detailing her observations of San Juan del Sur and Nicaragua in general. Here are some of her observations:

It was 1987 the last time I was in Nicaragua. At that time the U.S.A. was still supporting the Contra, the people that were against the Sandinista government that had taken control and ousted the long lasting and very corrupt Somosa regime. So much energy and money had to be spent protecting the country from the Contra. Those forces (terrorists) would come at night into the villages and destroy hospitals, schools and people.

You may remember that a couple of years earlier John [my father] had been a member of a farmers group that went to help the people. The Canadian farmers were helping the Nicaraguan ones in the maintenance of farm machinery. In 1987 he, his cousin, and Sandy drove to Nicaragua and it was then that I flew down to join them. At that time the infrastructure was, well, most of it was not. There were next to no means of transportation, there were shortages of nearly everything. The people, who under Somosa had been very poor, still were, but there was hope that things would improve once the Contra gave up. I saw so many changes. The city of Managua which had suffered a devastating earth quake prior to ’87 still had blocks of rubble which is now all cleaned up and parks and new buildings are in place there. There is also an area that is a shantytown inhabited by those who are landless and unemployed.

The city is full of new vehicles, trucks, SUV’s, cars, nice taxis and motorbikes.There are also small bicycle taxis and small three wheeled vehicles for hire. Naturally the common folk do not have cars but they now have options. I was not on any buses but Sandy tells me that they are often, regular, well used and quite acceptable except for Americano’s Norte folk with long legs

Sandy and Aaste have been living in a small town of 5 – 6 thousand people. San Juan del Sur is on the south west coast and about 3 hours away from Managua. That depends on the roads and some of them; perhaps a lot of them are in very bad condition. I arrived in San Juan on Easter Sat. and the population was perhaps about 20,000 people. Easter and Semana Santa (the week before Easter) are the biggest holiday throughout Latin America and San Juan, being close to Managua was filled and overflowing.

There were trucks for all sort of food cooking. Whether you wanted chicken or ribs or tortilla’s they and other foods were available. There were two discos’ that had been brought in on trucks and set up on the beach. They were huge, probably held 3 thousand or more people. One wonders how it can be cost effective to set up such places for a short while until I stopped and remembered that labour is so inexpensive. Every ‘booth’ had a boom box going at full volume so the sound was overwhelming and could be heard in the apartment at night.

Mon. was a lovely day. Most of the visitors had left the town and the streets were being cleaned and swept and things were back to normal. San Juan is the windiest place I have ever been and being raised in southern Sask. that is saying something so the cleaning was a good way to try and keep the dust from landing on every surface in the house.

Sandy and Aaste had a very nice new and clean two-bedroom apartment one block off the beach, just around one corner to a fun bar and around the other corner a very good coffee shop and bookstore. They were in class from 8 – 10 and then we would meet at the coffee shop after which they again studied until noon. One afternoon we drove to another beach. On the way a woman was hitch hiking and in Nicaragua if you have space you never pass a person by. I remember in ’87 when our car would have as many people as it could hold, and I don’t mean as in how many seat belts. The beach was lovely as most beaches are but it was the drive down through the hills and farming country that I enjoyed the most.

There is quite a large ex-pat community in San Juan and Tues. all are welcome to a potluck, poker and or Black Jack evening. That was fun and informative finding out how and why folk have left the north and moved there. Various reasons. Some retired and of course their money goes so much further there. Some have started a business but all are past the child rearing age, at least the ones I met.

The drive back to Managua was interesting as Sandy chose a route that took us through a series of villages. One was all furniture building, another garden centre’s another ceramics and so on. Nothing like that when I was there before. Lovely to see the creativity of the citizen’s emerging.

Would I recommend a visit to Nicaragua? If you are of an adventurous bent, are aware of the poverty of the people and how rich we look even without gold and silver on our bodies, don’t mind driving your rental car over very rough roads, love gorgeous beaches and spectacular scenery then go for it.

Living on top of the world (well on top of San Juan anyway)


The road in (and out) of San Juan.

There is but one road in (and out) of San Juan del Sur. For the past month I have lived in a tiny little house perched above that road. The San Juan bay is ringed by small mountains and the village lays nestled between the mountains and the ocean. The single road follows the valley between two mountains where a small river meanders to empty itself at the north end of the beach.

There I am - perched on the 'patio'!



The silver 'shed' to the left is not part of our house - it actually has a separate 'apartment' in it. Sometimes we get neighbors.

Our little house sits on the roof of a small hotel. How it came to be built there I have no idea. It is a strange little thing, no larger than about 16 ft by 8 ft it has a kitchen, bath, small ‘sala’ and sleeping loft. The tin roof shudders sometimes as the wind howls around the house at night. Occasionally a bird will attempt to land on the roof, making an unholy noise of talons sliding and scraping on the tin as it tries vainly to find grip in the unyielding metal. From time to time a small pebble is dropped on the roof, startling me and begging the question: where the hell did that come from?

From the ‘yard’, which is the flat roof of the small hotel, I have a vantage point unlike any other in town. In the mornings I often take my coffee and perched on the side of the roof yard, legs dangling over the edge, (causing the gentle man who cares for the place endless worry as he imagines a gust of wind pushing me over the side) I observe the comings and goings of the town. Nothing can get past my observations - as everyone - beast, human, and vehicle alike, must pass under my eye.

A wooden cart pulled by two oxen rolls slowly down the road, while a speeding motorcycle, honking it’s approach weaves its way around the beasts. Following this comes a shiny white SUV with at least 3 surfboards strapped to the top, a few nondescript cars and then 3 goats. A semi truck carrying a load of bottles of purified water is honking and trying to get around the goats. Where, I wonder, is the goat herd? Now, there is my friend Kelvin (a transplanted Brit/Canadian/Calgarian ex-cop, he produces the local bi-monthly bi-lingual newsletter) walking into town. Will he keep going straight to his ‘office’ at Dave’s bar? No, he has turned up towards the market. Now comes a motorcycle with 3, no make it 4 people on it - the entire family - one child between dad and mom and the baby up front on the gas tank. Quads carry grandma and grandpa too!

I will miss this entertainment, but the wind up here is slowly driving me mad I think, so will be happy when I leave this hillside perch next week.

The view from the west 'patio' allows a glimpse of the ocean and the beautiful sunsets.


General view overlooking town and the mountains to the south.

Sunday, April 27, 2008

Navigating Managua

We went up to Managua on Friday to go to the dentist (I thought I’d take advantage of the $30 cost of a cleaning - versus the $100+ I’ll pay back home). I scheduled this trip for a Friday as I wanted to go to La Casa de Mejia Godoy to hear Carlos Mejia Godoy play his usual Friday night concert. The concert was great and we had a wonderful time - even spent less time than usual wandering lost about the city looking for a place we ‘know’ exists.

I think I may have mentioned before how difficult it can be to find places in Managua. This trip we were challenged to find the hotel that had been recommended, and at which we had reservations. We were told it was 2 blocks past the Spanish Embassy on the left.... it took us about 30 minutes to find it. That’s ‘good’ by our track record.

The reason that finding places in Managua is frustrating is due to it’s unique system of addresses. Here is the description given in the Lonely Planet guide....

...only Managua’s major roads are named. Large buildings, rotondas (traffic circles) and traffic lights serve as de facto points of reference, and locations are described in terms of their direction and distance, usually in cuadras (blocks) from these points. Many of these reference points no longer exist, nd thus addresses may begin with something like ‘de donde fue Sandy’s’ (from where Sandy’s used to be....)

From the reference point, a special system is used for the cardinal points, whereby ‘al lago’ (to the lake) means north, while ‘a la montaƱa’ (to the mountains) means south. Arriba (up) is east toward the sunrise, while abajo (down) is west and sunset. thus one might hear: ‘del antiguo Cine Dorado, una cuadra al lago y dos cuadras arriba’ (from the one Cine Dorado, one block toward the lake and two blocks up.

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This is all fine and good if you can find the initial point that the address starts with. In our case, we ‘thought’ we were at the Spanish embassy (they WERE flying the Spanish flag, after all). Turns out we were about 10 blocks away from were we needed to be... so no wonder the directions were frustrating the hell out of us. Ah well.... just part of the adventure.